Minggu, 06 Juni 2010

Why Want Sex guy and girl Want to Love


Men are frustrated with women because they never want sex.
Woman frustrated with boys because they always want sex.

Women blame men they do not know how to love.
Men blame women that they only talk about love but do not want to make it.

Are you a man or a woman, reading this article could change your life - finally, you will be able to get rid of your frustrations about the opposite sex.

The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone testosterone, the dominant male hormone. Produced by the body's normal male hormones 20 times more of this than females.

In other words, a man felt the same after one day without sex as a woman after 20 days without sex. A man who has not had sex in 20 days feel the same way as a woman after more than a year without sex.

Knowing this simple difference, you can understand the pain of the opposite sex. It's NOT their fault: they are made this way! It's in our genes! This is the reason why men are men and women are women.

Men and women are DIFFERENT.
Not better or worse, just different.

A man can be the father of a child every time she had sex, and a woman can only mother a child every two years or more. This means, a woman MUST be picky about who she allows to have sex with him.

For generations of women pay a price too high to make the wrong choice. Women who have chosen men with bad genes have weak offspring and their children struggle to survive. Women who have chosen men with good genes have a stronger offspring and their children survived disproportionally. The children bring their constituency maternal genes and this is why their genes are passed on to our women.

On the other hand, men never had adverse consequences make the wrong choice. The more children they produced, the higher is their chance to pass their genes to future generations, because some of them will survive. Whereas men who are determined to seek better genes too, they should take all opportunities to breed came their way to ensure that their genes will be passed on to the front. ONLY people who are stuck with a woman (even a high quality women) who have lost their genetically to people who use every opportunity and they have lots of children who survived. The children took their father's promiscuous genes, and this is why they are male genes passed us.

By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get, so they can spread their seed more widely.

By Nature women are made to find a lot of admirers because they can get, so they can make better choices and get the best seed.

Men looking for quantity - women seek quality.

This is why people seek sex and women looking for love.

Love is proof that a woman needs to have some assurance that people will stay and help with raising offspring. For a woman, sex is the culmination of an emotional commitment to a man.

For a man, sex is a physical action that facilitates the testosterone pressure he experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can feel the love of a man against a woman. This is why it often happens that people are missing after they get what they want: it is not love, it was the testosterone pressure. Sex for men is a reality of their passion.

This is why having sex at the beginning of the relationship is harmful to women: men do not have time to develop any romantic feelings for him. He needs time to develop feelings, and the only way to do this is through keeping the sexual tension occurred during practice. Sex must be attainable, nearly possible - but not enough. When the sexual tension at the summit, is mind-blowing released - and it is never enough, which lays the proper foundation for a future relationship - and love.

Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love.

All this happens at the unconscious level - that we are NOT aware of what happened.

But the reason why you are here and alive today is because each and every one of the ancestors, men and women, acted true to their instincts and managed to attract at least one sexual partner and produce offspring.

So, no need bitter about men wanting sex and women want love. Both are important pieces of the puzzle called Survival Of The Species.

And you'll better understand what the other gender is going through and give them what they want: the mind-blowing sex or exhilarating love.

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